My heart was so very heavy all day. I am certain many of you have felt the same way. Monday, September 29, 2008
Do you Want to Join Me?
My heart was so very heavy all day. I am certain many of you have felt the same way. What If We Had listened to the "crowd".........
As I was doing the dishes, everyone else was doing what had been assigned to do. The kitchen was relatively quiet and I got to thinking. What a blessed woman I am. Abundantly blessed -actually in gigantic portions. My heart was overflowing as I looked around the house that was completely strewn with the remains of yard sale preparations, boxes from the storage shed that I had searched through for things to put in the yard sale, contents falling out of some of the boxes, dishes, pears needing to be canned, dinner plates, cups, the toaster, purses, sweatshirts, computers, stuffed animals, books, toys, toys and more toys.
As I was thanking the Lord for my life I started remembering something some relatives of ours had said to me years before - in 1988 to be exact. On three separate occasions that same year I had had relatives call and tell me that they had thought about it and decided that I should give up having anymore kids and move on with my life. (Bless their hearts!)
Hmmmm.....that was an interesting thought from three women: one who had one child and two who had none.... Is it just me 0r do you ever wonder what people like that are thinking? Since they have never lived near me I'm not sure what their reasoning was (that is, if they used any). I had never asked for their help in any way, shape or form. I had never complained about my kids (it's just not my style - I have gone through too much blood, sweat and tears to belly-ache about my treasures)...so what they were thinking will remain a mystery forever, but suffice it to say, I politely thanked them for their input and went about life.
Well here I am pondering my life 20 years after those three separate phone calls.....and here's what I came up with as I cleaned up our very chaotic kitchen/family room...
What if I had listened to these three family nay-sayers?? How would my life be looking today? If we had "closed up shop to more kids".....we would now have been empty nesters for 5 years already! What a nightmare thought!
On that note...here's just a sampling of what I would have missed out on over the last few days in our lives if I had listened to the "crowd"...... I would have missed:
linking arms with Emma while skipping down Main Street late Friday night on our way to a movie, just the two of us, at Gaslight Theatre....
having Emmy snuggled against me in the theatre, as we watched intently, whispering back and forth from time to time...
having Graham, unprompted, come over to where I was sitting in the family room and leaning over to kiss me good night and saying, "I love you mom"......
all six of us riding in the truck together to drop stuff off at the parsonage for the sale and being totally goofy so our older kids were completely embarassed and E and G were texting back and forth about how embarassed they were (of course they were laughing the whole way)....
while dropping the stuff off we ran into a kind friend who attends our church and asked us to stop over as he had an ice cold IBC Root Beer for each of the kids and Dw (I declined the offer) and seeing their tickled expressions --- their very own IBC!
waking up Saturday morning to my oh-so-very dashing husband singing Days of Elijah and Year of Jubilee with great enthusiasm (that song would have no personal significance if it weren't for little Miss Jubilee)...
driving early in the morning to Starbucks with Emmy and her friend as we laughed about some silly things...
phoning Graham to see what he wanted from Starbucks and having a giggle about something...
sharing our story with two young women at Starbucks who said they would come to the sale (if it weren't for adoption we probably would have talked about the weather).....
two hugs from Autumn and her boyfriend stopping by the yard sale to check in on us......
spending the day laughing and being crazy with some really special friends whose hearts are also stirred for the orphan....
hearing Isaiah squeal "mommy!" when Grandma brought him to the parsonage.....
Isaiah and Liberty's arms wrapping around me when they got to the sale.....
watching Isaiah and Liberty giggle and play all day long while we sold "stuff".....
talking to our Tyler-son just before he leaves for a few days on a special training mission.....
panicking as I ran around the side of the parsonage to see where Isaiah was? Had he headed over into the parking lot and to the church building himself?
relieved to see him safe in big sis Emma's arms....
watching Isaiah and Liberty race each other in rolling chairs down the driveway while we started packing it up to call it a day....
talking with my kids while we drove toward home...
having Emma help me drop bags off at the Thrift Store's back door.....
making supper for the kids, while Emma helped me and the guys emptied the truck of the dining set (that didn't sell)....
racing Isaiah down the hall toward the bathroom for his bathtime and hearing him giggle as we raced....
listening to Isaiah and Liberty talk with each other....
hearing Emma trying to contain her chuckle while calling to me to tell Isaiah to stop.....
hearing Isaiah mimic Emma who had come to tuck him in...."Isaiah stop saying everything I say" "Isaiah stop saying everything I say"; "I'm serious Isaiah" "I'm serious Isaiah"; "Isaiah, really, stop doing that!" "Isaiah, really, stop doing that!"; "Mom!" "Mom!"; "Mom, Isaiah won't stop copying me!" "Mom, Isaiah won't stop copying me!" "Make him stop Mom!" "Make him stop Mom!"....(his little personality continues to make us laugh!)
driving into church this morning with Emma, Graham, Liberty and Isaiah and having each praying for specific needs (Jubilee, etc.) as each of us agreed together with the one praying outloud.....
holding Isaiah's sweet little hand as we walked about the church grounds doing little necessary tasks before first service....
snuggling with Isaiah on my lap during second service at church....
having Isaiah stroke my hair while I was holding him and singing and worshipping during 2nd service this morning......
going to tuck in Liberty and Isaiah and deciding to run from the bedroom door toward their bed and dive onto it......
hearing their peals of laughter when I plunked down in the middle of them.....
having Isaiah kiss my hand and say, "you the best mommy!"
hearing Emmy's excitement of who she found (after moving from Charlotte, NC 12 years ago) on Facebook - her first tiny sweetheart - Matthew - they were 3 at the time when we moved....
watching Graham's face turn flaming red as we mentioned something that tickles us and embarasses him...
tasting Emma's Mississippi Mudd that she made this afternoon......
having Isaiah sound asleep in my arms as I type this blog...(note: Liberty sound asleep w/pan beside her just incase she woofs, Isaiah asleep and Nelly on the other side)...and one trashed house surrounds me this Sunday evening.....So as I pondered just a smidgeon of all the delightful moments these last few days have brought I wonder what would have happened if we had taken the advice of our "caring?" relatives? I shudder at the thought and then I let my mind wander a bit more: Why would I ever want this joy to end??
Saturday, September 27, 2008
The Last Yard Sale For Us =)
Friday, September 26, 2008
Yard Sale Time!!
Thursday, September 25, 2008
The Home Show
I love farmhouses definitely most of all. They call to me and I wonder what stories they would tell if "walls truly could talk".
Ahhhhh - our most favoritest log home ever.....A Place Called Simplicity....
Wednesday, September 24, 2008
Texting with Our Tyler
I have mentioned before how close Tyler is to us. He is such a treasure. I know that adoption is so very scary to many people who have whispers of thoughts flitting through their noggin about the idea of adopting. Well here we are just about 23 years post our first adoption and we happily admit that we are still smitten with our precious son brought to us from the other side of the world once-upon-a-time in early 1986. He loves the Lord, wants to serve our country and has the funniest sense of humor - kind of a mix of far side and randomness.
He is not deployed at the moment having just returned in July. He is now in the throes of preparing for his next deployment. His superiors had asked him, upon returning from his deployment if he would be willing to do something within his regiment with alot more risk and responsibility? To which our flag-waving American son said, "Absolutely!" (Mom and Dad are still processing what this exactly means and, of course, since he is in the special forces we are not allowed to talk about it - except to each other! But suffice it to say, he/we are going to need your prayers even more so!)
Due to this new assignment the military has sent Tyler to some very intricate "schools" to learn some very fascinating things. (Of course they sound fascinating since he is safe in the good ol' U S of A.) One of the schools he went to was about learning how to follow a person and be able to tell all kinds of things about them just from following them.)
For instance, he told me that he can now follow someone and tell from following them: (1)whether they are left handed or right handed (how in the world they do that - who knows??), (2)if they are male or female, (3) how they walk (heavy on one foot or whatever), (4)what kind of tracks they will make, and (5)even how much they weigh.
When Tyler told me about knowing how much someone weighs I begged him that if he is ever following me and has to tell someone how much I weigh that he would promise to guess 20 pounds lighter!??! Pretty Please?? =)
When Ty was still living at home he was famous for eating all the Peanut M&M's or Hershey kisses (two of my all time favorites) in a bag and leaving ONE in the bottom. He figured that way no one could ever blame him for eating them ALL. It became a joke with he and I....as I would be craving some chocolate and he would have found it long before and have eaten it all but one. The same applied to cookies....all gone - but one. There were certainly times when these kind of things would truly annoy me and yet in the end we would usually laugh.
From the time he left home for the Army and now even more so as his next deployment (with greater risk) looms in the not-to-distant future the thought of him being home and eating all but one cookie or Hershey kiss or Peanut M&M sounds so wonderfully delightful. Come home, precious Tyler-son, and eat all you want...Mama longs to find just one sweet thing left by you in the bag or box.
So with that eating-the-last-cookie/candy story as a back-drop during one of these recent "schools" he sent me the following picture and the caption read: "This is my 'who ate my last cookie' look". I laughed when I read it and texted him something silly back.
To which he replied, "Yeah, probably hard to take me too seriously when you changed my diapers for years."
Then a few hours later he sent me the following picture with the caption: "This is my - been sitting in a tree for hours getting eaten by ants - look."
I am so thankful for these sweet laughs with my Special Forces son, even from afar. So thankful for whoever out there invented text messaging - may God bless them abundantly!
Monday, September 22, 2008
the River Run for Orphans
Liberty and Luke did the 5K together along with Isaiah and I after already doing the Fun Run....
Sunday, September 21, 2008
A Sweet Treasure
Saturday, September 20, 2008
Sweet Cooties!!
Thursday, September 18, 2008
An Important Question for All My Blogger Friends???
Sitting on the couch, working on the blog, helping Liberty and keeping an eye on the stove all the while talking to Isaiah too. (Moms really do multi-task, don't we?) I also had a headache and overall felt kind of cruddy.
All of sudden the smoke alarm started going off. It was screaming!!! Graham and I ran throughout the house trying to figure which smoke alarm it was. I finally called Dw as we were finding it impossible to figure it out. I was also feeling cruddy enough that I couldn't think real clearly. We opened the laundry room door (even though the dryer wasn't on) and I also climbed on top of the dryer to blow on the smoke alarm in the laundry room and still nothing stopped. Finally after about 20 minutes of blaring it stopped. We were confused. We had not been able to determine which alarm it was and part of the time it almost seemed like it was all of them it was screaming so loudly!
Life returned to normal except before long I got a bit more groggy and even thought maybe I should tip my head back and take a little catnap while Liberty worked on her school work.
About a half hour later the alarm started screaming again. UGH! Graham said, "I'll try to figure it out mom." In about 5 minutes he came to me and said, "Hey mom, I figured it out. It was the Carbon Monoxide alarm going off! Don't worry, I unplugged it!"
What Would We Ever Do Without Texting?
For instance, just this morning as I was leaving prayer time with Chelsea I got a text message from Autumn. But first let me back up a bit.....I always have a signature on all my text messages. I like something catchy; that would cause myself and others to really stop and think.
When Tyler was deployed I had my signature set as: PRAY 4R TROOPS
When Tyler returned from deployment I changed my signature to this: BE THANKFUL
At the moment we are doing a Bible study called "One Month To Live". It is an awesome six week study that our church is doing and all the small groups are doing. We have a gathering of friends who meet each week in our home as we study and ask ourselves: What would we do if we had one month to live?
So again, just yesterday, I changed my signature on my texts to: 30 DAYS 2LIVE
Back to this morning and Autumn's text. Autumn works for the airlines and flew Tuesday night to California to spend her birthday with big sis Abigail and our son-in-love Ryan. Autumn loves going to LA to be with them and they treat her extra special.
Autumn is our third oldest and has always loved walking to the beat of a different drummer. Like when she was just barely three years old she wanted to have acrylic nails put on her fingers - plain ol' polish just wouldn't do for this fine lady. Of course, she didn't get them at 3, but as soon as she was in her pre-teens she spent her birthday money and had fake nails put on. As a little girl she would talk about the day she would have her nails done and I would just shake my head in bewilderment. I had never had my nails done before and wondered where she had even come up with that idea! So you can only imagine that if she wanted her nails done at three, how it would be to hold her back for the rest of her life?
Then there was piercing. She attempted piercing her own belly button at 11 years old. No ice, no needle and, of course, no alcohol on the sharp object. She just took an earring and shoved it through the skin while upstairs alone in her room. By the time we found out she had a lovely infection going on. Ugh! The belly ring (or earring in this case) promptly was removed and she was grounded for a couple of weeks if my memory serves me right. We aren't the type of parents who go all ballistic or get all hysterical, BUT the kids definitely know how we feel about all the weird piercings, etc. Anyway, if a reaction is what a kid is looking for they will most certainly be sorely disappointed.
At the moment, Autumn is turning 19 in 2 days, lives in her own apartment, pays all her own bills and works long hours for the airlines as a manager. And, at almost 19, she now has numerous piercings too. =) We, again, just shake our heads in wonderment. I did ask her one day if we plugged a hose into her mouth could we use her as a lawn sprinkler? =)
So back to the text this morning. As I was leaving Chelsea I received this text:
I got my lip pierced yesterday.
I thought for a moment. Hmmmm... If she is looking for a reaction I want to be sure to disappoint her. So I texted back: Woooo Hoooo
Totally forgetting my signature, this is what it really said:
Wooooo Hooooo
30 DAYS 2LIVE
Autumn had no clue that I had changed my signature and immediately texted me back and said:
What's that supposed to mean?
I burst out laughing!! Yup, I love texting with my big kids!
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
The Colorado Sky
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Urgent Prayer Needed!!
Pray specifically that God would give them wisdom, discernment and much favor with the Chinese Government. They need to get her to the United States ASAP. Here is a link to their blog: http://www.roomforatleastonemore.blogspot.com/ **When I awoke this morning I ran to check on little Susannah. Their web site is now blocked and accessible "by invitation only". Their pain must be very great.**
Monday, September 15, 2008
It All Goes Down Hill from There
Emma puts it this way...“Who wants to go to school when we can have warm chocolate chip cookies as we do Bible study together?” She has a point!
Over the years I have done it all different ways….using all types of curriculums. My favorite years were the years we did Unit Studies (Konos or Weaver)- lots of work but oh so very much fun!.
With more little ones headed for our home to join our forever family we have now settled into our second year of doing Switched on Schoolhouse. Emma, Graham and Liberty each do their work on computers, which generates assignments and tells me what I need to correct at the end of their school day. At this stage in life it works well and they all love it (thankfully).
Each day though we stop what we are doing and we all gather with our Bibles for Bible study and prayer time where we pray for all kinds of things. We have seen some amazing answers to our prayers. Once upon a time we used to call it Family Devotions. Graham has always loved this time and when he was little he would say, “Can we do ‘otions’?” It was so sweet.
Well recently I have noticed how this Bible study time digresses each and every day. It starts out with everyone fully engaged and eventually the giggles start and it’s all downhill or upside down from there…..little ones sure make life enjoyable….the pictures tell the story….