Our Boatload of Dreams.....

Welcome to Our Place Called Simplicity.

We invite you into our lives with one goal in mind: that you would be encouraged to live simply and truly love one another.

Married for 33 years, we are the parents of many. Eleven {so far} children. Eight of whom are adopted. We also have four sons and a daughter that we are parents of in Uganda as well. They were raised on the streets and had no parents until we "adopted" them 3+ years ago. So we really have sixteen children total {with more on the way}.

After 7+ weeks in Uganda, Emma {18} and I recently returned to the United States with our newest addition - a baby girl named Ruby Grace. Dw and Emma were leading a missions team in June 2011 where they had the privilege of meeting Ruby - a tiny 11 month old gem weighing only 6 lbs.

Our oldest daughter Abigail and her husband finally{!} allowed us the privilege of being Mimi and Jaja by bringing us our very first grand baby {from Uganda}...making us now, officially, a multi-generational adoptive family. Proof that adoption is a very, very good thing!

We've had the privilege of adopting our treasures from all over the world, some dubbed "special needs" we are convinced that the only TRUE special need a child has is to have a family.

Our peers are empty nesters, but we are certain that given this option to any orphan - "old mom and dad" or "no mom and dad", all would still vote for the old ones. So here we are - the old ones....doing it again....

If you are need of encouragement or wonder if God is able to move your mountain, please head over to the sidebar where Special Posts are listed. Start at Our Wild Adventure Part 1. You will be reminded of Almighty God's deep love for the orphan and how He will move mountains on their behalf....we call Him the Miracle-Working, Mountain-Moving, Awe-Inspiring, Gasp-Giving God!! Yippee Jesus!!

I am humbled beyond words and ever so grateful that the Lord is fulfilling a promise He gave me way back in 1982..."making the barren woman to be at home - the joyful mother of children" (Psalms 113:9). How I praise His name!!

Saturday, August 29, 2009

Potty Training or Something Like That

When Elijah & Elizabeth came with me home from Africa last December, Elizabeth was basically potty-trained. A few accidents here and there, but she was doing great!



Of course, less than 4 weeks later the fire happened, she regressed and it all went out the window. I didn't push it, frankly, I had plenty to be concerned about without worrying about that.....



Months passed and she started mentioning, albeit occasionally, that she wanted to get up on that potty. And when she did, she would 'do her thing' (most of the time).




This summer we found two potty seats at a yard sale. Matching. Perfect. Elijah loved using it occasionally, as well. In Africa they were made to sit on them at least 3 times a day, so he knew what he was supposed to do.


Elizabeth & Elijah's second most favorite part of the potty training experience is the prized M&M or chocolate chips after they "produce results"....but their very most favorite part is getting to dump their treasure in the big potty. I'm sure we can all imagine the thrill, or not.

I was laughing outloud to myself the other day as I realized: here I am 50 years old and on any given day you can hear me saying in a rather freakin' out voice (reaching decibals I didn't know existed) as Elijah is fighting Elizabeth for her potty bowl (cause he wants to be the one to dump it), "It's her pee-pee, it's her pee-pee, it's her pee-pee!" As I try to pry the potty bowl containing the treasure from both of their ever-so-tightly gripping fingers.





One day Elizabeth showed up in the hallway with her "prized" possession....so we could all clap....(and yeah, that would be winter boots coordinating with her outfit - cause a girl wants to do what a girl wants to do!). You go girl! We would never want to miss your special prize!!


So are the two potty-trained? LOL I'm guessing about the same time pigs fly. In the meantime, every few days, I break-up fights over whose potty bowl it actually is.....as they duke it out to dump their treasures.......

23 Simply Sweet Words:

Karin said...

Oh my gosh...the same thing happened at our house!! It's not happening now because they have graduated to the 'real' toilets--but now they fight over who will flush. (At least there is no 'dumpage factor' any more though.)

Amy Genn said...

Now that's a potty training story I've never heard before! Ha!

I'm glad it's all so fun at your house...some moms get so crazy about potty training.

:)
Amy

Holly said...

Ha ha ha! Good laugh today! : )

Melissa G. said...

Aww, the look on her sweet little face is so proud of her "treasure"!

purejoy said...

oh, too funny!!
i dont' know if you read mckmama or not, but she's got a great potty training 101 post.
i'm sure after umpteen jillion kids like you, you could probably author your own book (which i think you should anyway)
anyhoo. . . hope no one drops their "treasure" before making it to the target!!

blessings, friend!

Are These Kids All Yours? said...

That just made me smile- thanks!!!!!

stephanie said...

Oh, that is priceless! I am loving the pic of Elizabeth looking sooo proud! gotta love the boots!

Tiff said...

I am in the midst of potty training my twins right now, so I am right there in the pee-filled trenches with you! The best is when you find pee on the floor, and don't know who it belongs to. Good luck! :)

Kat said...

That is SOOOO funny! I could just picture the scene if mommy didn't intervene of the dumping of the prize...TOO FUNNY!

Chris said...

oh! yeah! Love potty training (not)!
Glad I'm done for now

Laurel said...

There are many blessings associated with adopting younger children ... however, maybe this is one of the blessings of adopting older children. My African children already knew how to "go potty". However ... we did have to teach them the culturally appropriate places to do such an act. In Ghana, there are very few public potties, so the children had learned to just go wherever they wanted to go. Thus, we had to teach them that we can usually find a restroom when needed, so there is no need to use someone's flowerbed, etc...

I've got to say ... while I have potty-trained two children at once before (we have twins), I have not had children fighting over who gets to dump the contents of their potty bowl. Too funny!

Also, while you may be potty training at 50, I'm sure you are enjoying that more than you would be having an "empty nest". If we had stopped at "just 6 kids", we would be facing the empty nest this fall. I am so glad that we didn't stop. I am so glad that the Lord is keeping me busy with the next 7 children. No empty nest headed our way for a very long time.

Blessings,

Laurel

Abigail Q said...

Ewwwwwwww mom. Ewwwwwwwww. Okay, really I laughed out loud...

scrappy quilter said...

This just cracked me up. Too funny!! And those potty chairs...they are something else. I needed a good laugh today Linny. Thanks!!

Hugs

Chris and Sarah said...

I am so glad I'm not doing any potty training right now.

Well, I guess I am still working on the puppy.

Shonya said...

I've spent hours over the past two days reading past entries, so, although you don't know me at all, I feel like I know you. And I had to laugh as I read this, b/c we are toilet training our sweet Kiana, who will be 2 in a month, and we also clap, cheer, and reward with M&Ms!

Many of your other posts have brought me to tears, esp since we also have adopted two children and are in the process of updating our home study to adopt again. Your story of your two little ones from Uganda have made me wonder if that's where our next child(ren) will be from. . .the Lord only knows!

Adeye said...

Ha ha---toooo funny :) I had to laugh.
Just catching up after a crazy 48 hours of yard sale for Hailee! Oh my goodness--we worked--but the Father rewarded us immensely. So happy to hear that you have people working for you...and Jubilee--NOT giving up. That is so wonderful, Linny. This is the Father's battle--we KNOW how He loves to be victorious in battle, hey????

Love and hugs, dear friend.

Oh Dear said...

Can you imagine a delivery person coming to your door and hearing your "correction" over the treasures? :) Yeah, the list goes on and on about things I have done (or said) that I would have never dreamed of, until I became a mama of course.

Megan said...

That's hilarious....we are still doing the same with Lily! And she loves to dump her "treasure" as well :) You are a great mom Linny!

Jill said...

Hi Linny!
I am a long time lurker on your blog, and have a question for you that I don't want to post on your blog about. Could you shoot me an e-mail when you get a chance?
jilbug@columbus.rr.com
Thanks! Jill

Ladyblog said...

Cute story!
I hope your sweet hubby is feeling better. You have had your share of trials recently. I am praying fervently for Jubilee!

Tony and Rett said...

HAHAAHAHAHA That's hysterical!!!

SO glad you shared this part of "real life!"

Denise said...

I laughed SO hard at this post! My 3yo son is very possesive about emptying his potty bowl, too. Unfortunately for us, our bowl isn't as deep as yours appears to be, so I, the crazed 52yo mom, yell, "Let Mommy dump it...PLEASE!" That usually sends him running, flinging the contents all over the place in the process!

I also love, love, love the picture of Elizabeth. My 4yo daughter often dresses in a bathing suit and snow boots, and I'm always happy to know that we're not the only ones having so much fun! :)

I've mostly lurked on your blog, but I just wanted to thank you for the opportunity to laugh, cry, and pray with you!

David and Sarah said...

Oh my goodness! Too funny! We had two potties for our two who are 6 months apart. But, I must admit, I never let them dump the treasure out--just too much potential for a mess! lol

Blessings,
Sarah