Our Boatload of Dreams.....

Welcome to Our Place Called Simplicity.

We invite you into our lives with one goal in mind: that you would be encouraged to live simply and truly love one another.

Married for 33 years, we are the parents of many. Eleven {so far} children. Eight of whom are adopted. We also have four sons and a daughter that we are parents of in Uganda as well. They were raised on the streets and had no parents until we "adopted" them 3+ years ago. So we really have sixteen children total {with more on the way}.

After 7+ weeks in Uganda, Emma {18} and I recently returned to the United States with our newest addition - a baby girl named Ruby Grace. Dw and Emma were leading a missions team in June 2011 where they had the privilege of meeting Ruby - a tiny 11 month old gem weighing only 6 lbs.

Our oldest daughter Abigail and her husband finally{!} allowed us the privilege of being Mimi and Jaja by bringing us our very first grand baby {from Uganda}...making us now, officially, a multi-generational adoptive family. Proof that adoption is a very, very good thing!

We've had the privilege of adopting our treasures from all over the world, some dubbed "special needs" we are convinced that the only TRUE special need a child has is to have a family.

Our peers are empty nesters, but we are certain that given this option to any orphan - "old mom and dad" or "no mom and dad", all would still vote for the old ones. So here we are - the old ones....doing it again....

If you are need of encouragement or wonder if God is able to move your mountain, please head over to the sidebar where Special Posts are listed. Start at Our Wild Adventure Part 1. You will be reminded of Almighty God's deep love for the orphan and how He will move mountains on their behalf....we call Him the Miracle-Working, Mountain-Moving, Awe-Inspiring, Gasp-Giving God!! Yippee Jesus!!

I am humbled beyond words and ever so grateful that the Lord is fulfilling a promise He gave me way back in 1982..."making the barren woman to be at home - the joyful mother of children" (Psalms 113:9). How I praise His name!!

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

How Can We?

As I walked around and greeted boys and talked to them during the Wedding Feast I noticed something….some of the boys that had eaten were now going over to the plates that were being scraped and eating the piles of scrapings.  

Scrapes of food from all these plates....




were being scraped off and put on trays like this....

so the dishes could be washed...
{cause there weren't enough dishes}

And some of the forgotten treasures of Uganda,
 {who had already eaten their plate full} 
were crouching behind the serving table and 
eating ravenously the food off the scraps tray.


Ever been so hungry that a plate of scrapings from all kinds of people that you don't even know looks appealing?


Ever been so hungry that you eat as fast as you can, hoping no one is watching because you are afraid that someone might try to stop you?


Me neither.  



But there are millions around the world whose 
daily existence does not
guarantee a meal any given day.   

{And being painfully honest - how many Christians don't have the courage to fast - even one meal to see God move a mountain? Yet most of the world isn't even guaranteed one meal?? Ouch.}


How can we ever complain again about the flavor of the food we have been served? 

Or the portion size? 

Or the item on our plates? 

Or listen to complaints from our family about leftovers?  

Or how can we sleep at night allowing our children to 
grumble and complain about what is being served??  

"I don't like this ham sandwich."


"I don't feel like having meatloaf for dinner, we had that last night." 


"I don't really like eggs for dinner."   

 "I want McDonalds for lunch not Wendys."  

Seriously, how can we?

And once again, 
our hearts were smashed to smithereens 
by the things that break His.

35 Simply Sweet Words:

Melissa said...

Oh my word. So broken. Your world can't EVER be the same after seeing and experiencing things like this...but satan sure does try to get you back to the way it used to be. I pray that my heart will continually be broken to bring HIM glory in everything, no matter how much it hurts me.

Renee said...

When we lived in the Philippines a long time ago, small children used to come and go through our garbage cans and sometimes when the garbage truck came you would see young men eating the garbage and even starting a fire on the top of the heap to heat up the garbage and eat it. It was sobering to say the least. You never forget those images and it makes you grateful for all we have.

Su said...

will be sharing this with my kids tonight. . I think my kids "get it" but always good to have a visual reminder. .thanks! tears

Shonni said...

Thank you Linny....

Toaster4JC said...

Thank you for this post! Heartbreaking!

Cindy said...

Once again the power of truth hits me like a ton of bricks. I know this truth yet I retort back to selfish mind sets. Forgive me God...

love said...

came to leave my comment & noticed that my word verification is 'hates.'
how appropriate...
i was coming to say how convicted i've been about how the Lord hates our arrogance, our wastefulness, our unconcern for these precious people.
(regarding Ezekiel 16:49)....
may i NEVER be arrogant, overfed or unconcerned. may i ALWAYS help the poor and needy.

continue to break my heart, Lord. [thank you for being a part of it, linny.]

ps--some of us are fasting/praying on friday....will be including prayers for your family!

Laura said...

Wow, what an eye-opening post. Alot of times when I complain about somthing like having to sweep the floor I realize that really I should be thankful to even have a wood floor to sweep! Alot of people don't have floors or even brooms to sweep them with. This post makes me want to run over to Uganda and giving those boys all they can eat, and give them love.

~Laura

The Annessa Family said...

Amazing.

My gut reaction is that we are ALL called to do something. It's different for each of us, but so many deny the calling! We feel called to adopt a child - adoption is our "plan A" if you will.

This calling is one we tried to ignore.

How could God possibly ask us to adopt and not try to have our own child? Would God really call us, at 25, to complete an international adoption? Where in the world will the money come from?

Yes...we tried to ignore it. We tried to move on from the calling. But God was persistent in our hearts and so we have started our journey to our daughter in Taiwan.

We can all do something…support an adoptive family, go on a mission trip, pray fast, SOMETHING. The way in which you respond to Gods call is not of importance…

It’s that YOU DO RESPOND.


Brooke Annessa
www.theannessafamily.blogspot.com

Freedom Hollow Farmgirl said...

WOW so eye opening LInny. We are so spoiled in the lives we live here in this wonderful country. Cannot even comprehend not being able to open up the cupboard and decide what to make for dinner...

Feona said...

The imbalance in our world in so enormous it makes me feel sick to think about. I often wonder what made me so lucky to be born into the circumstances and the place in the world that I did. I did nothing to earn the priviledges I have...nothing at all. I'm glad you're sharing these stories with us. It makes what we already know so much more real. My heart just breaks for these children...how can the grown up population of the world be letting little children suffer like we do??! I get angry thinking about it. I want the whole world to read your blog Linny! Your stories have spurred me on to do more.

Melissa said...

Wow. So convicting and each of your posts about this wedding feast have brought me to tears. God is stripping me of so many idols during my time in UG and I echos so many of your feelings.

Kat said...

Sigh...just sigh...

Kimberlie said...

This is what slays me - my kids, all of whom are adopted from overseas in a country where many do not have enough to eat, many lie cold at night in orphanages with hungry bellies, and my children will tell me that they don't like something or other that I prepared for them. It makes me sad that I allowed them to develop this attitude. It makes me indignant that they lack appreciation for the food placed before them.

Ouch.

Mommy to the Monsters said...

I know..I was just telling my 6 y/o son (who happens to also once be an orphan himself) this even before I read this..He is COMPLAINING about being made to eat Smoked pork chops, yams, mac and cheese, cabbage and a homemade strawberry smoothie....He actually had his nose turned up like he was too good to eat it.....(please don't take this the wrong way) but I seriously wanted to smack some sense into him! (I didn't) IT MADE ME SO ANGRY!!!! But anyway thanks for letting me rant!

babysteps 2 where we want 2 be said...

the waterworks flows... thank you for sharing exactly what i needed to hear at this exact moment!

Joanne Reddell said...

WOW! I'm reading the Radical book and I've been pondering alot about these types of things. Thanks for sharing. I'm being challenged in more ways than one.

Love you, sweet friend!

Marcia said...

I just came through a week of eating one meal a day- rice and beans, and drinking only water. Even though I got hungry I still was not hungry enough that I would have wanted to eat scraps off of someone else's plate, much less a conglomoration of scraps from many people. I am so so so blessed.

Janet said...

Oh Linny what a beautiful post! Thanks! Made me heart broken for those precious children and others! Janet

Charissa said...

Thank you for this incredible reminder of how truly fortunate we are and how we need to teach our children that. I try to remind my children of how incredibly blessed we are to have any food to eat each night. Perhaps sharing these pictures with them will bring it to new light for them.

Charissa said...

Thank you for this incredible reminder Linny of how truly fortunate we are that we have any food on our table for each and every meal. Trying to teach my children this and will definitely be sharing these pictures with them. Thank you!

Holly said...

Wow. That is some powerful stuff. : ( May God forgive us.

Emily said...

Amen. Amen. And Amen.

Lisa said...

Oh Linny,

I stand in a line for 31 cent scoop night at baskin 'n Robbins waiting for my favorite flavor of ice cream realizing how truly spoiled rotten I am! My heart breaks!

Lisa K, Whidbey island

Becky said...

Reading your post was so difficult to accept. That fact that these children are so desperate to eat that they would do this just breaks my heart. Could you share with us how we can support the ministry to the street kids in Uganda?

Anna Marie said...

Thankyou for this post, I don't have words to share really as my heart contemplates what my response is going to be. But it can not be nothing.
My children will see this when they get home this evening and I truly pray it will stir their hearts too.
That together we will do something.

Lori said...

Thank you for sharing all God is teaching you to help teach the rest of us! Tears fill my eyes and choke my throat as I think of all that we have and throw away and those who have not and want what we do not.
Keep up the God work.

karina said...

Heart breaking.

I think the next time I fix something my children don't like I will give them this choice, before dinner: You may fast and pray for the poor and starving of the world, or you may eat this meal joyfully with thanksgiving. It may be interesting to see what they choose. I'm betting that my older kids will occasionally choose to fast.

Linny, thank you for sharing this. When I read your post about the wedding feast I wondered if you would post something like this. I fully expected it. But it is a good reminder to me as a mom not to let my kids lose sight of what matters, or to take for granted how incredibly blessed they are.

Jolene said...

I for one am duly convicted.

Blessed Mom of Four AND More said...

Tears................

Catalina said...

Thank you for reminding me. Its a sobering thought, and its so easy to forget that we are so blessed to be where we are. To have what we have.
I pray Lord continues to remind me and others not to squander out blessing on whining about them.

Full Spectrum Mom said...

oh.

Thank you.
Thank you.

Beauty and the Green said...

Thanks so much for sharing this with us. I love your blog and look forward to each post. This is why I am awarding you the Versatile Bloggers award....Check it out at www.beautyandthegreen.blogspot.com Congratulations and all the best!

Beauty and the Green said...

Thanks for sharing this with us. I love your blog and look forward to each post. This is why I am awarding you the Versatile Bloggers award....Check it out at www.beautyandthegreen.blogspot.com Congratulations and all the best!

Sharon said...

My youngest was very hungry for the first 4 years of her life...it is painful to hear her talk about how the sun would go down and come up over and over, and still no food. It's hard to imagine the reality...but these are real children, real parents, real families that are hungry.